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helping a friend

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jesy · 04/04/2015 08:48

Bit of history,

A couple years ago I met some one line dating , we didn't work out but chatted as mates,he set me up with a mate of his and it took a while to meet but when we did instant spark, after a few months it ended but very fond memories
He then just disappeared out of my life , I had a happy new year text and then nothing ,I'd seen d the odd text utility no reply.
His mate assured me he was ok , I continue to chat to the mate on /off till we had a fight before xmasast year.

The guy I saw for a few months randomly text me start of this year ,so we are back in touch .

Well I'm worried over him , he so unhappy , goes to pub alone every night , hateshisjob, just bought a.motor bike I said be careful , his reply was who'd care if I died.
Last night I said huni you could be depressed and I was asleep when I got reply and he admits he is but I don't know how to help , do I ask his mate took after him, I know where he lives but he'd hate me if I ever just turned up.

He such a kind person , I just want to help x

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Walkacrossthesand · 04/04/2015 08:52

Tell him to go and see his GP and get help , depression is a treatable illness even though it doesn't feel like it when you're in it.

jesy · 04/04/2015 09:03

I know he won't go tho I don't know if to ask his mate to get him out more , he spends each weekend alone works in a fairly solitary environment..

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