No sex and no off at bed time

[Feelinghelpless2]

So I've posted about my DH and I not having sex very often and lack of cuddling, touching etc as we've had a few issues with my adult DS. Tonight he's just said night, I'm going to bed. I said ok I'll come up too, that's it, no expectations as normal and he sat back down and said I'll stay up then if your going too. I was a bit taken aback and said ok, I'll stay up even though I'm tired and off he went. I'm sat here now bewildered, upset, hurt and lonely. Can't believe its come to this :-( am I that bad?!

Thanks room that nice of you to say. Just want my husband back & the nice things that come with that.

I think when the situation arises again you should be direct and ask him why he doesn't want to go to bed at the same time as you and why he isn't cuddling you again.

How exactly is your DS affecting your relationship? Are you sticking up for your DS? Do you think the rules are fair? Have they been decided by your OH?

You don't sound pathetic, OP. You sound like you are very hurt from being rejected by the Edson you share your life with.

I can see exactly how you feel the way that you do.

I think the fact that the sex wasn't romantic, is only initiated by you and drink had to be involved is quite a clear indicator that something isn't right. (I don't get the impression that you were drunk and it wasn't romantic because you were ripping each other's clothes off).

Was he romantic before? When did this stop? We're there any contributing factors to the romance dying out?

*person not 'Edson'

He sounds very angry with you.