Am I being over sensitive?

[Newlifeagain]

My partner can be very difficult and I keep going back and foward that he might be emtional abusive.
He promised my son yesterday that he would take him to a big play park so of course my 6 year old was very excited! He then gets a txt from his friend to go to cinema so he tells my son that they will go another day. Of courses son was upset so my partner has a huff and told my son that he never gets to do anything for himself. However he was out with his friend on Sunday for drinks!!
I have had hyperemesis and been in hospital over the last moth so unable to get my son out far as it makes me very sick or I would take him out myself.y partner is working all weekend so my son won't get far so I was keen he takes him out today. He has now agreed to take him but is in a huff so won't talk toe the rest of the day.
He has also been distant since I bece pregnant the other night he said he loved me but I am a bitch! How can you say that in the same sentence?? I am not like that either I would say I'm very easy going.
Am I being over sensitive with this?

You are most definitely not being insensitive! He sounds like a prize twat and sorry you are having a child with him. He's showing you how he will treat his child. Your poor DS, I'm sure he will pick up what a bother he is because of this idiot huffing and puffing. And how dare he calls you a bitch, please don't accept that this is how people talk to each other in a relationship. It is so very wrong.
You really deserve much better op.

He's messing with your son's head and is verbally abusive to you, so no, you definitely are not being over sensitive, tbh, I think it's frank chat time, he either changes his attitude or goes away.

Why did you decide to have another child with this fool?

If someone makes you question whether you're over sensitive, the chances are that you're not.

If you're a sensitive type of person and time one makes you feel bad about it, they're not respectful of who you are.

And here, he's being a baby and needs to grow up. You're not over sensitive.

*someone

'Told my son that he never gets to do anything'

Outrageous.

Your ds doesn't deserve this idiots shit on his little shoulders.

Stunned you choose to have a child with him.

Sounds like he's not particularly interested.

How could he go out to the cinema rather than honour taking your son out? As said above he is messing with your sons head and his self esteem. You are NOT being oversensitive.

Did he behave badly when you were pregnant with your first child as well?

Of course you're not being over sensitive.He called you a bitch My husband has never called me that or any other name in over 45 years.You need to get rid.Imagine if your son starts disrespecting women like this.Doesn't bear thinking about does it ?

Thanks for your advice. It's a long story having another child was not taken lightly. We had split up a few years ago because of his moods and controlling behaviour. He changed for a while and started respecting me and my son and it was really good for a long time and was a big decision before deciding to have another child. He really made me feel as things had changed. Although when I anonced I was pregnant he changed back.

Uh-huh - because he thinks you're stuck now so he doesn't have to behave well to reel you in any more. Tosser.

He's a pig, not worthy of having a child or a partner.

If he spoke to your 6 yo ds like that then I'd say he clearly has no respect for anyone and certainly not himself.

So he put on an act....he showed his true self in round one....you dumped him sooooo he Smartened up for the intermission.

Now you've got him again with bells on.

Vile