Just some advice or wondering if anyone has been through the same. Been with partner 2 years , he had split up with his ex 2 years previous to us meeting but she had stayed living with him, she had a history of mental illness and borderline/histrionic personality disorder whilst they were together, she threatened to cut herself when he wen to work, out etc, she has since married .
She has never liked us being together and used to try lots of things to try and stir up trouble , anything from constant calling all through the night ( her husband works night shifts) to keep needing to be took to A&E with nothing really wrong etc etc. She admitted she was jealous of him being with me and seems like has just tried her hardest to come between us.
He eventually asked her to leave us alone , that he can't 'manage ' her anymore and thats her husbands job now. She got angry etc , left it a week then all the phone calls started again, this time she kept saying she had the wrong number, but just kept doing it, then tried to engage in a chat about what had happened to her etc. He changed his number - then the emails started, he ignored them. She then went quiet for a few months.
We have just got married - somehow she has found out , and now emails have started again. He doesn't read them , just deletes straight away ,the heading was CONGRATULATIONS!! , so we guess she has found out. The reason why they split up is because he wouldn't marry her m whether this has something to do with the contact coming back again??
What it just feels like is she will never go away, its like she must always be looking for a reason to connect? Will she ever go away? Has anyone experience of similar? Just any advice would be great.
With personality disorders I have read they can't bear to not be in control and get attention , not sure if this applies ?