This is a difficult thread to make, my dh has aggression issues, not violent that's too strong aggression is the right word, its always been an issue/in the background , probably ways in which early on in our relationship I should have heeded, in hindsight. It was a problem at school etc has been an issue at work in the past. Its become an issue I cannot ignore now , not violence towards me, but arguing over discipline resulted in being told to stop being so stupid/piss off only to come down stairs minutes later ..no apology just sulked in the living room..this is becoming more and more frequent, weekends are horrible , im not going to specify incidents in detail, i don't need to I know its unacceptable and i feel its a bit Unfair on dh, as by the nature of this post its of course one sided. I just feel a bit sick and lost, i think I will text him saying we need a chat tonight. But i cant stand another 'its all your fault'fest If he refuses to take responsibility/seek help its over, its not fair on the dc,.and me, I have depression Fgs, I cant get well in this environment. What services fairly inexpensive is their someone can access? Sorry to ramble.