Ex on dating site?

[lovehoneylove]

I have been split from my partner for about 8 months now. I have only had one brief 'fling' since we split but I feel that I would like to start dating again soon and was considering joining a dating site as I miss having company, admittedly not just emotionally but the physical side too.
A few months after our spilt, I plucked up the courage to purchase a few 'lady friends' etc but I really need to find something more substantial
My fear though, is that if I joined a site and saw my ex was on it or, worse still, that he saw me on it
Is there anyone else in a similar position or who has had a similar experience?

Do you think I might be looking for something physical too soon?

OKCupid is quite good for a free one. I haven't tried any of the paid ones but I would consider them if looking for a LTR rather than casual dating.

I have used a paid hookup site and let me tell you, it's a massive ego boost. Putting up a photo of yourself in your underwear, at size 20, and receiving 700 messages from guys eager to bang you is quite the sensation. Although you do have to wade through a lot of dick pics

700! They'll take you a while to get through Pocket

If the idea of seeing your ex makes you feel that uncomfortable then are you sure you are ready?

What is it that you are worried about?

Do you just not want to see his face ever again?

Is it that you will feel sad that he is actively looking for someone else?

I suppose it's just the realisation that that is it 'over' after that :-( Or am I being silly?