Please excuse my rambling im in a bit of a state just now
Brief back story -
Dp is very abusive,emotionally and financially. He hasn't hit me.
We have been together 5 years and I have asked him to leave several times over the years but he just won't go.
He has cheated several times with various different women he meets online and in the pub. He always made it out to be my own fault because I haven't lost weight like he's asked over the years. I honestly thought I deserved it and it's only recently I realized that it's not my fault he's just an arsehole.
He cheated again on Saturday night. He stayed out all night and called me in the morning demanding I picked him up from her house because the buses weren't running.
I refused and he's been in a mood since.
It's been awful the past few days,deafening silence and horrible comments from him about my parenting skills and how shit a mum I am because I never have any money.
I never have money because he takes it all and spends it in the pub.
Anyway this morning I woke up to him packing bags up for dd2. Dd2 is 22mo and is his, dd1 is 6yo and from a previous relationship.
He said he was taking her far away and I'll never see her again.
He has gone but taken my house keys.
My rent is due today and he took all my money last week so I can't pay it.I will most likely be evicted because this is the third month in a row he has done this. He takes it then returns it when it's too late to pay it on time so it goes down as a default..
How do I go about getting dd2 back? I have no idea where they have gone.
Do I need a solicitor? I haven't got any money.
I'm going to phone my landlord about the rent but I have no idea what to say and I'm really upset.
I hate him.
I have no confidence left, I am not allowed to do anything and I'm scared of him.
He has taken my bank cards and passport etc.
Would the police help me?
He said they won't get involved in domestics and said he would 'get me done'. I don't know what his next trick is but I'm scared.