My partner and I have been together for a few years. We have had a lot of problems. It began with his family and spiralled from there. He hasn't treated me very well ever since then and it has been a vicious circle. I have loved him and continue to love him despite this. I reached my breaking point a couple of weeks ago and told him to leave the house and that we were done. I decided to be strong and mentally prepared myself to be single and without him. 24 hours after this he had already started propositioning other women and engaging in sexual conversations. It is about 4 or 5 women. They reciprocate and he is clearly ready to move on in this way. At the same time that he was speaking with these women, he was also asking me if he could come home and if we could repair things. After a week I said we could see each other once a week and stay separated but see where things would go. At that point I didn't know about these women. At the end of the following week, I saw messages on his phone and flipped out over it. He hadn't continued to speak with these women, but I was shocked and hurt that he had done this as soon as 24 hours after I had asked him to leave. I was also angry that he was telling me he wanted to come home, fix things and love's me while doing this at the same time. I feel like he wore down my resistance under false pretences, iyswim. Him moving on in that manner so soon after we ended makes me question so many things. Yes I asked him to leave, but with very good reason. I feel like if that is what he wanted to do, he should have stayed away from me and I feel emotionally manipulated. I wouldn't have said we could restart things if i had kniwn about these women and he clearly knew that because he kept it from me. AIBU? Be honest but be kind, its all still pretty raw.