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Trying to make our marriage work

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ShouldIworryornothelp · 24/03/2015 19:15

All we do is fight. He is hard work and very difficult to live with.

One of the biggest issues is his drinking, he has been and extremely heavy drinker our whole relationship but has stopped drinking the past few months.

Over the past few weeks I've noticed his attitude change, he's been getting snippy with the kids leading me to believe he's started drinking again but didn't have any evidence to show this. Today though took the piss royally. We've played host to the in laws tonight and he cracked open a second bottle of wine to himself during dinner having drunk making dinner and is now sat at the dinner table mouthing off to his parents. I've brought the kids up to their room to get away from him and to 'help them tidy their room'

He keeps saying he wants this marriage to work but there is no evidence to show this from his side at all. I can't live here any more but all my friends and family tell me I'll be a fool to leave. I don't know what to do anymore

OP posts:
Granville72 · 24/03/2015 19:26

Listen to your heart & head lovely, NOT what your friends & family tell you to do.

At the end of the day, they don't live with it and get to go home safe behind their front doors.

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