Hubby not that interested in me...

[Onelittleguru]

Since I fell pregnant with our first child hubby seems to have lost interest (sexually and in me as a person in general) I lost loads of weight, toned up and friends all complimented me constantly a year after birth but he seems to be able to 'take it or leave it' when it comes to intimacy.

I'm practically celibate and beginning to accept this as a way of life even though it kills me inside.. Had confrontations galore and now both at counselling,which seems to be going nowhere... Beginning to get paranoid and suspicious of him...

Feel like I'm an old person trapped inside of a young persons body.. Anyone else had similar? How did they overcome things/make improvements?

I had been going to say that this sounds very similar to me. Gained a lot of weight with dd1 and hubby seemed to go right off me from the work go with the pregnancy then after I lost lots of weight and toned up he still wasn't interested very much.
However then I read your last post about him trying to strangle you and think the lack of intimacy is the least of your worries.
GET OUT NOW!

I have already been in contact with people who can help... It's just making that move. I have NOTHING and no family around to help me..

Feel like I'm going mad! He said he put his arms round my neck with anger because he was frustrated that I never trusted him... I don't know if I'm coming or going right now

This happened to me when I was 20 (the strangling thing). Told my best friend, she diminish the importance of it and advised to continue with the relationship. Now, from afar and some years after, I still wonder how a friend could tell me that and not get me out of there immediately. Leave, there is no justification for such thing.

This hideous abusive man is not that into you? Lucky you, he may not try to stop you leaving. This post makes me so sad, please get out.