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Dp may be leaving me

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tammybear · 26/04/2004 23:47

I think dp may leave me cos he sed that i have so many complications in my life (look at my other threads!) and he doesnt know how we r ever suppose to have a future together. He doesnt think hes got it in him to take much more of this, and that i dont understand what pressure is on him, and that he isnt involved with any of this. Although he is my bf and dd's godfather. Im so upset and I dont know wot to do. Is ne1 still awake?

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essbee · 26/04/2004 23:53

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tammybear · 26/04/2004 23:56

No hes not her biological father. I dont know what to do. He said he loved me enough to go through what ever with me. I guess he doesnt love me as much as he says he does.

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fairyprincess · 26/04/2004 23:56

Dear Tammybear - sorry to hear about your hard time. Sending you lots of best wishes. I hope things will work out for you.

essbee · 26/04/2004 23:58

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tammybear · 27/04/2004 00:00

Dd's 16 months. Ive got problems with ex, money, depression. He says its getting all to much for him. But i guess i dont blame him in some ways, as it is a lot to take on.

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essbee · 27/04/2004 00:06

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tammybear · 27/04/2004 00:25

Iv sorted money problems out. Been to doc but need to go again. Just spoke to him and he says its all too stressful for him.

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MeanBean · 27/04/2004 13:18

So what does he want to do about it? It sounds to me like he's grumbling about what a bad deal he's got, without actually having any constructive ideas about how to deal with it.
Does he want to continue to grumble at you until he gives up and leaves, or does he want to improve your life together? It sounds like you've already taken quite a constructive approach to your problems - you've sorted one, you're sorting another, and the ex one is one you can't sort, it's beyond your control, so you just have to find a strategy to live with it.

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tammybear · 27/04/2004 14:17

Im not sure what he wants to do meanbean. This morning he was saying he doesnt know what to do, and that it is too hard for him. Then I asked him if he could come round so we could talk but hes suppose to be going out with his parents so he said how would they feel if they know that were arguing. So I asked him would he rather tell them we're splitting up. Anyway, it went all quiet, and out of nowhere, he txt me saying that he rang up going places about our holiday (end of august) to see if we can change our room!!!??? Im so confused, cos 1 minute he sounds like he wants to break up, and next hes going on about our holiday!!! Someone slap him for me!

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