DP was made redundant last week. It's the third time in 5 years. He didn't much like the job so he's glad to be out of it. He had only been doing it for just over a year so no payment. Last period of unemployment which lasted for 6 months had a bad impact on our relationship from my point of view - he dossed around 'looking for a job' while I worked & did all housework & all childcare etc to enable him to be free to do anything he needed to find a job. I felt pretty resentful then and I am not going to do that again.
I work part time but managed to get an extra shift this morning. I came home to find him sitting in front of the computer in a darkened room, says he sent a few e-mails and watched a bit of TV and was surprised that I was back so early. He's being very evasive.
If I wasn't fed up, I'd advise myself to 'cut the man some slack, he's just lost his job' but he's just gone off on a minor errand, saying that without a job he's not sure who he is. I want to scream what I think he is at the moment!!!
How do I deal with this/him/myself??