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4 replies

firefly78 · 16/03/2015 12:38

ive posted before. nothing changes. my husband is convinced i dont respect him. this appears to be the underlying fault of everything. he thinks i don't listen or take his views into account or ask his opinion cos im laughing at him behind his back and dont respect him. he has a temper which he knows but he flies off the handle a lot. i don't know what to do. i feel he is so fucked up. he has an ongoing health problem which gets him down but im just totally fed up. :(

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dreaminred10 · 16/03/2015 13:09

Has it always been this way?

tiredoflooking · 16/03/2015 13:11

Do u respect him? Not feeling respected can be very upsetting for a man. What is his health problem?

CogitoErgoSometimes · 16/03/2015 13:48

Your husband is a bully. By creating this fantasy that you're not listening and you're only out to get one over on him, he gives himself the perfect excuse to be an angry arsehole. When he flies off the handle are you at risk? Is there physical as well as verbal aggression? Do things get broken? Are you frightened?

nrv0us · 16/03/2015 13:50

Are there any kids in the picture? If not, that might make your course of action clearer. If so, how is he with them?

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