feeling very sad today

[Staceymarie1988]

I'm feeling rather low today ?? im so sad my fiance has walked out on me and my 2yr old son as i caught him cheating again he said he wants to feel free and he hasn't been in touch at all I'm going to the council office tomorrow as i need somewhere stable to live although he is still paying the rent im so sad does this get easier I'm suffering with major anxiety.... Anyone been in my situation? I feel i have been living a lie for 8yrs with this relationship and he doesn't want me i have never done anything wrong and he's hurt me time and time again what's wrong with me? ?

Nothing is wrong with you.

It does get easier, i promise, unfortunately the only way to get past this is to go through the really difficult sad bit.

Give hom all the freedom he wants, for good. You and your child deserve better.

I'm sorry you're having a bad day. I'd also say that there's nothing wrong with you. Well, no more than the average flawed human being. It's a bit of a cliché but your life is going to be so much better for not having a faithless man in it chipping away at your confidence and making you think you're substandard. Hope you get your accommodation sorted and I hope you quickly start to enjoy the benefits of being a free and independent woman.

Thank you I'm just really struggling with the fact that he doesn't want me it was only last year he proposed to me and now this has happened I've last my bf fiance and best friend in the space of a week although that's what i thought he was. I feel so lonely and pathetic and I'm scared he will come running back in a few months time messing with my head. My head is a mess.

All you can do is keep putting one foot in front of the other and get through the days. It will be a struggle at first, but soon you'll find that you've got to the end of a day and there have been good bits. Then you'll find that there have been good days, weeks... you get the picture.

Start building a life for just you and your child. That whole "fake it till you make it" thing is true. Forcing yourself to get on with it will eventually turn onto naturally getting on with it.

That way, when/if he does come back and start messing with your head again, you'll be in a better position to make sure he keeps that "freedom" he so desperately wants.

I know it seems really hard now, but it really will start to get easier.

Thank you ladies.... He is paying the rent... Until I've sorted something out just that he doesn't seem to cate about how upset i am he cheated on me with his ex gf altho when i spoke to her she stated she was an escort!? He's never been sorry for hurting me and now he says he wants to be naively be able to do what he wants he's back on fb now and blocked me probably getting upto no good whilst I'm sat here in this so called home worrying about housing and benefits and a stable future for my son he has no worries add he's gone back to his mum's leaving me here in a mess i may have to give up my dog aswell as its going to be difficult to have time for him enduring is a mess and I'm in tears and completely heart broken x