It's been 3 month since my husband's been unemployed.
Fortunately that happend just after I started working after being a stay at home mum for 7 years.
But, now my job gets so stressful and I can't bear work stress and bearing financial pressure on my own anymore.
I am actually foreign national who's been living here for over 10 years.
I'd like to go back to my country, if I can.
But unless things settles legally, I'm not allowed to take children back home country due to the international law called Hague Convention.
He has had so many different jobs and had several unemployment before he settle the last job which lasted for 3 years.
I did put up so many things for the sake of the children.
Now, I'm really not sure if it's worth me bearing this situation as i never feel at ease about his job situation. We're over 30 now, I don't want to live like this anymore....
He only look for a job he wants and expect more wage than his previous job. He's been to quite few interview but there's no luck...no wonder why.
I did suggested him to lower target wage or get any other jobs whilst looking for a job he wants. But he doesn't wanna do it.
When I was stay at home mum, I didn't mind doing all the house work.
Now, I work 9-6 PM come home cook dinner, washing up, do the rest of house work and catch up some house work on the weekend too.
He barely offer any help and chilling out on the sofa or constantly touching his phone.
All he does is sit in front of the computer all day and just do school run and putting up some laundry. I'm bare asking anything, and tired of his laziness.
He blames me that I have changed since I started work and tired of my constant nudging.
This is so unfair, because i'm doing what I can do for living. Watching him being lazy after me coming back from work am I even not allowed to complain?
I can't go back home, and i'm stuck not being able to leave the job.
No one to depends on in here.
How long do I have to live like this....