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How to make the date extra special?

32 replies

Resurgence333 · 14/03/2015 21:26

So, I have been asked out on a date by a woman I know. We are going to go to the cinema and then for a meal. I have been on dates before. However, I like this woman a lot. She is intelligent, lovely and witty as well as beautiful. So, any advice would be great!

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Niamhisnotarealname · 15/03/2015 13:41

If you turned up with flowers and chocolates on a first date I'd run a mile! How well do you know her already? Just be nice and gentlemanly and listen lots, offer to pay at previous posters have said. I don't know what you mean by 'she's a very cuddly person' what's that got to do with anything?

GatoradeMeBitch · 15/03/2015 13:51

It doesn't matter who asked who! Have we just zapped back to 1950? Maybe she likes to take the initiative, maybe she's more outgoing, maybe she brought it up before he had a chance to.

It's been said already OP but don't go OTT, it can be a bit stifling, even if you do like the person a lot. Just be easygoing, attentive, and look like you're happy to be in her company.

MummyBtothree · 15/03/2015 14:21

Abcd no im not new on here and If I offended someone by speaking fondly of them I would address it if they brought it to my attention but as they havent I presume they arent so easily offended. We also happen to have commented on the same threads not 'following' you, I posted on both a number of times previously. My interest is on these people so if that changes I will pm you.

NuMonoaural · 15/03/2015 14:26

I didn't appreciate it at the time, but I once went on a date in London around Bonfire night, and he'd brought sparklers Smile. We lit them down a side alley just off Oxford Street, and then went for cocktails and dinner in Soho. At the time I completely didn't show my appreciation (being out and about in London a lot a that time), but thinking back it was a really lovely gesture.

MummyBtothree · 15/03/2015 14:27

OP you mentioned that your ladyfriend was 'cuddly' if it was relevant in any way, been wondering what u meant, hope it wasnt to describe her size??!! just from a womans perspective thats all! x

Psycobabble · 15/03/2015 14:28

Be yourself ! That is all

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