To cut a long story short when decent mothers were dished out I wasnt at the front of the queue. I was born to a narcissist. Im 36 and married with three sons and looking for a mother figure. I live in the deby area. I know there's women out there of a certain age who couldnt have children and I want to 'adopt' a mum. Has anyone got any ideas how?. Im NOT in it for babysitting services or financial gain etc. Just crave having a mum.