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embrassing crush

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kellyjay · 13/03/2015 14:13

Hi everyone, im new to this site so please be nice:-D .
Right where do i start, so i can have a crush on my sons nursey key worker. My crush is at least 15/ 20 years older than me im 24 . I know nothing much about but cant help myself thinking about 24/7 . Hes not the best looking man either. He has a great relationship with my son. The thing is i feel bad for wanting him so much but i cant help how i feel. Ive had this crush for 2 months but known the guy for 5 months. How do i get over him. I want him to like me. My son loves the nursery so cant move him. Should i tell my crush how i feel or how do i even tell him as its innapporirate. Im so confused!! I even had a dream about him. I dont know if he likes me as im older enough to be his daughter. Age is not a problem to me. But how silly of me to fall for a nursery key worker. Please i need advice. Thank you :-)

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Caoimhe1922 · 13/03/2015 14:23

Ooooh!
Is he married/ partnered? Are you?
Depending on answers to the above questions, if you are both free to enter a relationship then could you ask him if he'd like to go for a coffee and take it from there.
If there are spouses or partners to consider, then you should leave him alone, your crush will fade.

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kellyjay · 13/03/2015 14:30

Hi, i dont know if he has a partner no wedding ring tho. Im single. But how do ask him as i only see him when i take LO to nursery. Do u know if he can get into trouble IF i was to ask. I dont want to look stupid. How can i let him know i like him without being to forward. I can hardly look him in the eyes. I know i blush around him. X

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Hoppinggreen · 13/03/2015 14:32

Ask him if he has children of his own - it might lead onto talking families generally.

Caoimhe1922 · 13/03/2015 14:37

Hopping has it, ask about his family, then ask how his wife deals with...(a child related issue).
Then if you get the all clear move on to more chit chat and then ask him for coffee.

BubblesInMyBath · 13/03/2015 14:41

I'd leave alone till your DS is through nursery.

It would be mortifying if it went pear shaped

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kellyjay · 13/03/2015 14:44

Yes i think i should maybe ask if has kids. I do talk about my LO and he has never said oh mine do that or yer thats kids like the rest of the nursery workers do. I will see if i can aak him monday. Thank you both for your advice

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WaxOnWaxOff · 13/03/2015 14:45

I'd do nothing until your son has finished at nursery.

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kellyjay · 13/03/2015 14:48

My son had another two years to finish nursery. Dont think i will wait that long lol. But i understand what your saying so thank you

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