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should I reply to this text?

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cutekoala · 10/03/2015 03:40

I met a man about 2 months ago we both live in different countries but stayed in touch and unexpectedly got to meet up in London as I had to go for business.
We really hit it off lovely night and stayed in touch via text and Facebook.
He sent me a message to say he was on his way to the airport (for business in NY for a month) I didn't text back (as got the text too late thought he prob on plane already) but did text him a couple of days later to see how it's going.
He replied "Good Afternoon from the big apple :0) Big meeting tomorrow xx"
No question or anything so I think I don't reply?
All been very natural until now - we didn't kiss at the end of our date nothing at all has happened or even been said but had good vibes. All new to this!!!

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PresidentTwonk · 10/03/2015 04:00

Wish him luck with his meeting if you want to replySmile

SensationalGirl · 10/03/2015 05:12

What would you have done if he'd sent a text like that before you had arranged to meet? Has the date kind of pushed you into unknown territory?

My advice is to be you and if he rejects that then it's best to know now.

jaynebxl · 10/03/2015 05:14

I don't understand the problem. He replied with a friendly text. Why wouldn't you reply?

cutekoala · 10/03/2015 05:41

Thank you - I think you are all right I am just over thinking it.

We got on really well and have had fairly regular (every few days) texts that are friendly and a couple of times mildly flirty.

I think I am just conscious that he doesn't think I am hassling him but now I look at it in black and white I can see there is no reason he would.

I think I'll just wish him good luck with the meeting and then see???

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musicalendorphins2 · 10/03/2015 05:42

I think the xx has thrown you off? I would probably just reply that you hope all goes well. (and don't feel obligated to put xx at the end just because he did)

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