Hey everyone!
I'm sure some of you will remember my posts months ago about my break up and my now ex. We don't speak at all (he blocked my number and everything to do with me) and he avoids all sports sessions he knows I'd be at. Looking at it now, he's doing it hopefully for the right reasons in that if we see each other we could end up in a vicious circle!
Anyway a few weeks ago, an old guy I play a sport with and who my ex was very close to for years before I came on the scene said he'd going for a major operation and will be out of action for months (he's 70 so the fact he even still plays is huge!). He adored my ex too, and everyone at this place asks where he is. I have to explain he's most likely avoiding me and we split.
So tonight I called my ex, knowing I'd be able to leave a voicemail, and left him one telling him about this guy and he's having an operation and would love to see him before. I even said if he emails me and says he's going I'd not go that week. This is after him not even hearing my voice for three months and being split for four! I don't know how I feel to be honest, I wasn't begging for him back, I was genuinely trying to be nice and make sure he knows.
Feel much better now I've wrote it down!!