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emmal3417 · 07/03/2015 16:40

I have a long distance relationship of 4 months and it has been going strong.. recently people have been asking if I have met his kids/friends and seem surprised when I say no. They also ask about whether we have talked about 1 of us moving closer and seemed surprised we haven't discussed it.

OH Had met my kids, parents and friends and although he visits 2 to 3 times a week never stays over.

I'm really beginning to doubt him but thought I'd get some unbiased advice

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MummyBtothree · 07/03/2015 21:01

I was gonna say have a look through his kids friends. Do they share his surname? . Do you know the names of your fellas close friends or workmates?

emmal3417 · 07/03/2015 21:08

I know a couple of friends but not surnames. Yes boys have his surname. I may have a look. Will see. Part of me thinks I'm being paranoid lol x

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MummyBtothree · 07/03/2015 21:18

If something in your gut is niggling you have to follow it up if you can and dont feel guilty. It could be he's innocent of being unfaithful or lied to you but if thats the case something or things have led you to be suspicious which isnt a nice way to make someone feel xx

MummyBtothree · 07/03/2015 21:21

Ive had it done to me and I managed to prove it, I became a great detective and can put clues together that would put Poirot to shame! Grin

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