After 10 very happy years and three delightful boys my husband walked out of our lives 3 weeks ago. I had been suspicious for quite a long time that he was having an affair, I now know for certain that he is. I am devastated, ultimately we will need to sell the house which will be heart breaking for the children. I know that the person he is having his affair with is married, if her husband and sons were to find out they too would be destroyed. Would it be completely wrong if I were to suggest to him that he signs the house over to me and in return I will keep ‘mum’ about his affair.