bf has messaged girl who tried to split us up

[danni1305]

Please help my bf had this friend who tried to split us up he said at the time he would never speak to her again I also asked him never to speak to her again now this for me is not normal I don't do this but she tried to tear a family apart now this tramp was pregnant at the time and I've just found out today he has spoken to her again apparently he wanted to know if she had the baby because the tramp is also a druggy that was taking drugs while she was pregnant and he now can't see why I'm so angry at him for speaking to someone who tried to tear us all apart am I wrong to be angry and upset?

Doesn't he have delightful friends!

He wanted to know if she had the baby because she's a 'druggy'? Right.

What family did she try to tear apart? Is your bf a partner and father or just a bf?

Either way,it all sounds very immature.

He is doing this. I don't think it matters what you think of her and what she is like. If this is causing a big problem between you, then it's down to you and him to work out a compromise, or to admit your relationship isn't working. Do you have children with him?

What delightful language you're using. I would be blaming the bf, not the, errr, 'tramp'. You sound very young.

Who's the tramp? Is somebody homeless having a baby? I'm confused.

Because she caused a lot of problems in your relationship in the past, maybe you should ask him to chose between you and her. He need to show more respect to you and your feelings.

and dump the "t" word.

Although, I don't blame him for being concern for her baby

Life is too short for this crap. Find someone you trust and who doesn't associate with "tramps and druggies".

I always find it interesting when people talk about folks 'trying to split them up' like the poor man was simply some passive, brainless bystander in it all.

Trying to split you up. Ha! How would that even work?

And are you sure that said 'tramp' isn't carrying HIS baby!

Is he the father of the infant? If so, he was reasonable to want to check on the baby's health & well being.

She didnt try to split you up, he was weighing his options. This is not a man to put on the music and dance the pick me dance for.

Have some self respect and tell him, that unless he starts to behave like a man, you will have to reconsider your future. If he wants her, let him have her.

Is he the father of the baby?

How old are you

So HE contacts her, and she is the tramp?

Why is he interested in whether she has had the baby? Is it his?

Your problem is your relationship with your boyfriend. Calling this woman names is just rude. I'd also be wondering if he's actually the father.

I found your post really hard to follow, i don't understand the tramp part and what her relationship to your bf? And what family did she try and split up? Do you and your dp have children?

Does your choice of 'girl' mean she is very young? You sound young too.

If your BF has agreed No Contact, and has not lived up to that, then your problem is with him.

But why was NC needed? Were they having an affair? He enquired about the baby? Is there a chance he is the father?

You need to finish with your boyfriend. He is the problem, not the other woman he appears to have fathered a child with.