I have posted on here before about my sons' father. (he bought a sports car when he knew it would be no good for his kids, refuses to pick them up and bring them home for their visits, refuses to buy them a toothbrush for his house saying I should do it etc).
Anyway, on monday I have an important apointment at the hospital (neurologist), I have been waiting 3 months for it. It is at 5:30pm and I will more than likely be in there a while so I know the kids will probably play up...to get to the hospital I have to litrally go past their father's house.
I thought the sensible thing to do would be the ask him if I could drop the boys off there for a couple of hours whilst I went to the hospital, is this a fair thing to ask? they're his kids too!
Anyway he has not even had the decency to reply to my text , Ill give him until 9pm to answer (considering he sleeps during the day so may not have read it yet, however this is unlikely as he's normally up by 2pm and has a habit of ignoring my texts unless they benefit him)...if he hasnt replied by 9pm Ill assume the answer is no.
Do I have a right to be cross if this happens? I feel like sending him a text saying "forget it, god forbid you see your kids any more than you actually have to".
He pisses me off so much, cant do sod all where they're concerned.