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[NCbutIstillmightbeouted]

My OH got fired from his job, I have severe depression and anxiety and haven't worked in over a year. Sorry I am trying to put everything down, it might get confusing. my OH got fired at the beggining of the month for stealing, I took the blame with my family and said he got fired because of the time off he had due to my depression.

Our relationship has been rocky for a while now, he has been on certain sites (which I have issues with), I have been on porn sites (which I told him about)

He has gotten a job. He has informed me today that he is going to attend some interviews at 3pm in newtown.

The problem is, I have found messages on FB from him to another female about meeting up in newtown at 3pm and this was four days ago, so I have been awaiting this annoucment,

I love my OH but I no longer have any illusions about him, we have a lot of problems as a couple and as single people. For an example he is an emablered drink+depression+anxiey= one fucked up person. And it has only been recently I have been fighting him.

Actually I know what I need to do but it has been good to writing it out. Thank you

You know what you need to do, that's good. Do you have any real life support?

I'd follow him but then I'm a nosy cow.

Then I'd make sure his bags were on the front lawn upon his arrival home with a photo of him meeting other woman.

So sorry op, do you have any idea of how you want today to go?

Stay strong and yes I agree, bags on the lawn. Sounds like you will be well shot of him

I'm not sure he's worth fighting for. It doesn't seem like his morals are something worth fighting for.

Your relationship probably causes most of your depression etc.

Get rid of this low life and I bet most of it will vanish.

Ungrateful little bugger isn't he? Fired for theft, you take the blame and he repays you by lying and screwing around with other women. Nice. Hope you can make the break soon, hope you get some RL support and that you find peace of mind.

Keep posting OP.

Poor you op, my heart goes out to you.

What an awful situation, what do you think you want to do about it?

Sounds as though you have carried him for long enough, maybe it's time to think about you?

Your happiness is important, you will be strong enough should you wish to end your relationship.

Bottom line is,

He lies, cheats and steals.

Thank you all for answering,

I am a little bit embarressed because I wrote this while drunk and rather upset, however it is the truth, sober me wishes I could cover it up.

I have no RL support, it is why we have been struggling through, but there have been certain things, which I have addressed with him and he has gone and recieved help. But I am so tired now, yes we have been struggling but it doesn't make it right he lied to me

I am such a fucking idiot. I told him about knowing he was going to meet this girl and h gave me a very resonable excuse as to why he lied (there is a lot of back story)

He has now changed his facebook password and put a password on his fucking computer.

Exactly how is this meant to be convincing me he is innocnet.

I should of gone for my gut reaction

This hurts, it really fucking hurts

When someone tells you what they are, listen.

You know what he is now.

What do you plan to do about your situation?