Can anybody help with any tips or suggestions. My sex life has disappeared! Not for the other half of course! I seem to have no libido at all. We have two daughters 6 and 2years. Our sex life while I was pregnant with no2 was alive and kicking. As soon as I gave birth it hasn't returned. I breastfed for 12momths and thought that maybe once my cycle returned so would it. But no... Definitely not. I could go straight to sleep every night if I had my way, but it is now starting to take effect on our relationship sexually. I even wait for him to fall asleep before I get into bed ?? I have tried dressing up but that doesn't help either. We try candles and romantic nights, still nothing. we don't have any problems with the children's bedtimes. They are in bed every night by 6.30 and sleep through, so it's not like we are over tired. I just can't seem to get in the mood. I have explained to him that the more he says to me how we used to be will make it worse, but now I feel the more we leave it the worse it will get. I want to have that closeness again, I understand with 2 children the sex life may not be like it used to be, but something has got to be better than nothing! Please help ladies