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Unsure whether I want a relationship

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FizzyPink · 22/02/2015 19:45

So I was with ex DP for 3 years and we split a year ago. Things were bad for a long time and we stayed together out of habit. We never had much of a spark and I feel like I settled for him because it was easy.
Since we split I've dated quite extensively and have recently met someone I feel I could be really happy with.
My problem is that I'm unsure whether I want to be in a relationship. I work very long hours in a stressful job and just don't have time during the week. However, I've often thought I'd like someone to hang out with and do things with on the weekends.
My other issue is that I have this fear of settling for the wrong person again and I actually do enjoy dating.
I know no one else can answer this but I just don't know if I want that level of commitment but I really do like him.

OP posts:
Earlybird · 22/02/2015 20:04

Why can't you just hang out with him, and enjoy his company? Why does it need to be more?

Do you have any idea what he is looking for/wants?

Just enjoy yourself, and don't be in a rush to label/categorise the friendship.

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