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Why so much guilt?

6 replies

Walkingmistake · 20/02/2015 07:12

My husband and I separated a few months ago after a nasty incident in which he tried to rape me. I have bipolar and he been playing mind games with me.

I been going out with someone else my husband is aware as I been living with him. The kids have stayed with their dad and my mum. But my mum is letting me move in with the kids tomorrow.

So last night saw my husband to get my bank card back. He was crying and it broke me. I felt so guilty even though me and my husband have constantly argued for a month.

OP posts:
Original poster
Walkingmistake · 20/02/2015 07:12

Year not month.

OP posts:
DeliciousMonster · 20/02/2015 07:16

The crying is also a mind game. Please dont fall for it.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 20/02/2015 07:30

I don't know why you're feeling guilty. Am I reading it right? You've only been separated a few months and you've already over in with somebody else?

CogitoErgoSometimes · 20/02/2015 07:32

moved in...

Eastpoint · 20/02/2015 07:34

No, she's moving in with her mum (last line 2nd para).

Why did he have your bank card? Remind yourself that normally adults look after their own bank, credit cards etc.

gildedcage · 20/02/2015 09:28

But it does read as though OP has been living with another man? 1st line of the 2nd para..? This sounds very complicated.

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