Fling! message the world (or other women if you're DP)

[SexyPistol]

So what would you do if your OH had downloaded this app (its a messaging app which on the surface 'could' be innocent, a bit like snapchat) but he'd previously admitted to using it to chat 'innocently' to random women. He'd since deleted it (as you went mad because he'd downloaded it in conjuntion with with a swingers app which isn't quite so innocent) but you see today, has now reinstalled it on his work phone.

Install the same app on your own phone and make sure audio notifications are on.

Sorry, that was a bit childish passive-aggressive.

If the two of you have agreed a monogamous relationship and that flirting with other people falls outside of your agreed limits, then I'd be telling him to do one.

On his work phone? Doesn't that contravene his work communications policy? [missing the point]

What swingers app? [misses the point again]

TBH anything CAN be innocent. I would tell him that I felt uncomfortable about it but would leave it at that.

I'd think he was trying his best to find some random women to shag and I'd tell him he is now completely free to shag as many of them as he wants to because we are done and I hope his choice makes him happy.

Oh, oh, oh I really don't think this is innocent. The point is that OP has objected to him having the app - he's deleted it from one phone, but has gone and installed it on another one! Which is a breach of the agreement between them.

I would definitely not be happy about this.

has now reinstalled it on his work phone

Fascinatingly liberal usage policy the employer has !

I would be packing his bags and leaving them on the doorstep. You cannot believe he is innocent surely?

He knows it's outside your boundaries but is doing it anyway. I think that shod how much he values your happiness and your relationship. I'm afraid that's be game over for me.

deal breaker

what other options were you considering....because from where I am standing if you are meant to be in a monogamous relationship he is planning on breaking those boundaries

He's been looking to cheat, got caught, played it safe and is back on the game again.

Chuck the idiot out then send an e-mail to his employer letting them know about the app he's installed on his work phone!

My workphone doesn't allow installing regular apps, let alone the sexy apps; I can't even update the games on it!

What would I do? Become single as soon as possible.

What would I do? LTB

I'd assume that he wants to shag other women tbh.

Reinstalling the same app would suggest he's using it to contact a specific person.

Is there an app you can download that tells him to fuck off?

A definite LTB. How disrespectful.

What would I do? Tell him to fuck off to the otherside of fuck & when he gets there to fuck off some more.