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A life without sex...(sorry if this is a little crude)

6 replies

SingleMum92 · 16/02/2015 22:43

Hello. This is my first time on this site and I'm aware this isn't the best introduction, but here we go. My fiance left me when he found out I was pregnant (which I still haven't really got my head around) and refuses to have any contact with our child. I spend all my time raising our child and never get to have any 'me time'. The long and short of it is that I really miss sex to the point that, at times, it is all I can think about. Without an opportunity to meet anyone new, I fear that this may go on for a very long time. I guess the crux of the matter is: is this normal? Does anybody else have any experience of this, or have any advice?

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 16/02/2015 22:46

Is it normal to obsess about sex if you're in the middle of an extra-long dry-spell? Yes. Masturbation is the usual way people bridge the gap....

Nightingalemumoftwo · 16/02/2015 22:47

Isn't this an easy problem to solve?

AnyFucker · 16/02/2015 22:48

I recommend you lockdown your inbox, love

There are some opportunists on this site

SolidGoldBrass · 16/02/2015 23:53

Start looking into ways you can have a social life. Do you have relatives or friends who might babysit occasionally? Or can you afford a professional sitter? If you want NSA sex and are laid back about it, a swingers' club might be a good way to get some in safe surroundings. Online dating is another option but take it carefully as there are a fair few arseholes out there.

ineedabodytransplant · 17/02/2015 08:26

Listen to AF.

SensationalGirl · 17/02/2015 09:10

Nothing wrong with wanting cock. Can you get a break from baby duties? Even daycare one day a week? There's plenty of guys who will meet up with you during the day.

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