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Definitely over now, been de friended on Facebook!

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ScrambledEggAndToast · 15/02/2015 21:55

The chap I had been "seeing", I have just noticed has de friended me on FB. For anyone that read my other thread, he hasn't called or text me since Thursday and in three months, although he rang and text a lot, we only met up about 8 times. When I suggested meeting up, he kept being vague and I was annoyed but also starting to suspect that there may be someone else.

Somehow though, it seems a bit final being de friended Hmm I genuinely liked him but it just wasn't going anywhere.

Ah well, have already been asked out by someone I met on Friday. Not sure I fancy him but onwards and upwards.

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handfulofcottonbuds · 15/02/2015 21:57

Harsh!!

Move forwards as you say and find someone who deserves you Smile

Idiotdh · 15/02/2015 21:59

That seems really horrible that he didn't just explain it was over and at least pretend to remain friends!!

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ScrambledEggAndToast · 15/02/2015 22:00

Harsh indeed, I wanted to be the one to do it haha Grin

Like I say, he was nice but I couldn't spend my life going weeks without seeing him and then when we did meet it would be 1 hour for lunch or occasionally 3/4 hours. We had 2 overnights where he had to leave fairly early the next morning. Not up for that long term.

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GlitteryLipgloss1 · 15/02/2015 22:02

The trash took itself out!

Sounds like he's done you a favour. Thanks

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ScrambledEggAndToast · 15/02/2015 22:04

Weirdly, our last text message went like this:

Him: "have a great day xx"

Me: (1 hour later as busy at work, didn't see text) "you too"

Not sure if lack of xx on my part significant but never heard from him again. However, the night before we had 2 conversations. The first where I suggested meeting up tonight (this would have been the first time in 3 weeks). He said he would ask his mum re. Babysitting as he's a single dad. The second conversation it wasn't mentioned and I was annoyed although didn't say anything.

Guess I will never know. Who cares, hopefully I will finally find someone nice.

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Handywoman · 15/02/2015 22:07

How weird. As you say, onwards and upwards!

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ScrambledEggAndToast · 15/02/2015 22:09

Me too, need to find a thread where I can use that. Plenty on here I guess!

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ajandjjmum · 15/02/2015 22:10

How old was he - 15? You deserve better!

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ScrambledEggAndToast · 15/02/2015 22:20

Haha, he was allegedly a grown up Grin Grin

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GinSoakedBitchyPony · 15/02/2015 22:21

And here is your clue for learning from this :
"When I suggested meeting up, he kept being vague".

Don't give it any more of your energy, you went out with him 8 times, no need to analyse it to death. As you say, onward and upward.

HellonHeels · 15/02/2015 22:24

That's a horrible way for him to end it, sorry that happened to you but you're well rid of him.

And you (and the rest of us) have gained a great new expression in 'trash took itself out'

Hoe you have some fun dates and enjoy yourself now.

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