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Does this girl that is a friend have something for me? Or I'm I looking too far in to things?

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TopMan1995 · 15/02/2015 03:50

And no. Before you start thinking I have a thing. To me were just friends and she has a recectly broke up with her bf.

I mean she says quite a lot of weird stuff. But today at work she told me to buy her a valentines card?! .Lol she wasn't joking about it either.

Though she is in troubled relationship with her bf. I always get the feeling she likes me or at least finds me attractive, or just wants to be closer than just work friends.

She stares, as I can see her from the corner of my eye or I'll catcher her from a far, if not close.Though she is quite a starer lol, though I have seen it a lot of the time with me. After she found me on FB, now she texts me with kisses like every Friday asking what time imma make it for work lol. I mean that's just weird though? Like every Friday, she wants to text me? The same stuff?

She even, when in a relationship (still is) months ago when I only just started to know her. Said this " I Iove you, say you love me back" We actually had a bust up about this. Cause I asked her bf's friend if they were still together. Just because I though it was weird for her to say that. I mean "love" is a strong word to use just for just liking someone lol. Her Bf when mad and asked her "why you asking him that?!!". She comes to me next week and says she doesn't really mean it. It was a joke and says that she says that to everyone she is friends with at work, she also apparently touches peoples biceps or stomach she is friends with (she did this quite a lot when I first knew her) at work also. Though after that bust up with me and her she doesn't really act like that anymore, though we are friends again.

I know I'm sort of helping her through he bf problems a little, but then she is asking is she's prettier than so and girls that her bf has met at clubs. And now this buy me a Valentines card thing, is just confusing me.

She even wrote on my pay slip once. Hi "My name" your late again love "her name" And then wrote on next months pay slip your late again?! smiley. love " her name" x. Like ? I'm just taking this as, it's just her.

When broken up. She decided to screen munch the text and text em to me.
Like this girls is weird.

Lol she said she wanted to talk to someone and chose me. bout her still wantin.being lonely. but she hates him. And bf saying don't SMS every again. Etc typical girl emotions. Why she didn't talk to her closer friends instead of me? meh. Maybe cause her now semi-ex didn't really allow guy friends.

Anyway now after all this break up and comfort , that I now know I shouldn't be doing. Though I was just being a friend. She went out on a night out with her mates after work. And sent me pictures of her.one before club n other in club toilet. Lol I didn't bother going to work that evening either. Thought after the pics she sent me "kisses for naawww" like wth? That means but whatever.I just said "enjoy urself n forget bout textin me, u ain't making sense" must be drunken typo right?

I mean, I'm sorry. Am I really in the wrong for reading signals like that. I mean what girls does these things? it's weird. Confusing as hell.

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TopMan1995 · 15/02/2015 20:54

Pocketsaviour. I thank you. As your advice and opinion is and has been the most insightful.

Somthing similar happened to me last year. When a friend I started to have crush on. Basically used me as a carer for her relationship problems. Went to ask her out on Valentine and her bf ended up getting her a boqeut of flowers brought to the sixth form. I ended up giving her the card n rose but told her it was to cheer her up instead ha.

I have only been in 2 short relationships n both have ended with me getting the dumb so. When it comes to girls n flirting, i get neverous of the moves I make. Which is why I came here

I thank you so much again.

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StripeyCustard · 15/02/2015 22:15

Awww bless you OP. Ten O'Clock now though. Time for beddie-byes.

thornrose · 15/02/2015 22:21

I mean this most sincerely Topman, how did you come to the conclusion Mumsnet would give you the answers you are looking for?

GinSoakedBitchyPony · 15/02/2015 22:22

^^ listening intently

TopMan1995 · 15/02/2015 22:22

Haha. I'm a Uni student. Times are a little different nowGrin

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TopMan1995 · 15/02/2015 22:25

Majority vote. Plus I'm not just going along with peoples opinions. I'm obviously not instantly certain, every human being acts and thinks differently. But I still feel that persons comment. Made a lot of sense to me.

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fluffyraggies · 15/02/2015 22:42

Concentrate on you OP. Would be my advice.

What i mean by that is this: as you go through life you will meet many many people, all with different agendas, and personalities, and ways of doing things. If you try to work them all out, and make sense of everything that they send your way, you'll go mad.

Instead, concentrate on what you know is right and comfortable for you. Your way to be, the right thing to do, and the way you would like to be treated. Stick with this, be kind, but don't accept shite from anyone.

This girl sounds like she is messing with you, and just about everyone else she has in her life right now. Is it worth all the this effort? Don't allow yourself to be dragged into it. You can be friendly with her at work, but the daft texts and messages - there's no need to reply. Let her play her games with someone else.

(this is the advice i'd give to one of my 3 teens :))

TopMan1995 · 15/02/2015 23:01

Hmmm. I understand. Thank you again.

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StripeyCustard · 15/02/2015 23:19

TheStudentRoom.co.uk or com is your friend tonight!

BuzzardBird · 15/02/2015 23:20

Good advice fluffy. I am clearly not ready for teenagers yet.

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