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Time to end this?

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CurlyTeethWhiteHair · 14/02/2015 23:14

I'm sat here looking at DH passed out on the couch and I'm thinking there is more to life than this?!

Backstory; married recently however since then the doubts are creeping in, he isn't proactive with the kids at all. I keep the family together and I'm fed up!

I suffer from anxiety & depression so my view may be distorted. I don't feel attracted to him anymore and we don't sleep together (my choice as he tried to force himself on me) he is on the sofa.

If it wasn't for the kids I would kick him out. I'm worried he may try to abuse me again so don't want him in my bed. I can't see a way back from this but don't want to upset the children.

Can counselling help this situation or is it time to accept it is over? So confused.

OP posts:
FeelTheNoise · 14/02/2015 23:25

Most definitely Sad sleeping separately in case he tries to rape you, this is awful and you deserve so much better x

ShizeItsWeegie · 15/02/2015 06:52

Councelling may help but it depend if you feel you can ever trust him again. In your shoes I would definitely leave if he had tried to rape me though.

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