Hi, I don't know whether I'm permitted to post here as I don't have any children yet, but would like some honest advice please. My boyfriend and I are in our early thirties, we've been together nearly 2 1/2 years and lived together for just over a year. I think he's bisexual. Ive found 'tranny trap' porn on his tablet about a month ago. I wasn't able to confront him with it at the time, as I had to rush to hospital to be with my my dying grandmother. As a result, my anger at him and shock, together with my grief for my grandmother culminated in me shouting at him, throwing his clothes at him etc,. and generally telling him that it made me sick. We talked about it, i asked if he was gay? He swore that he wasn't, that he only looked at it because it was 'forbidden porn' and that turned him on. He tried to explain that he had looked at so much porn over the years (his last girlfriend broke up with him in 2007 and we got together in 2012; there was only one casual relationship with a female for him in that time), he's become 'de-sensitized' to it, i tried to explain what was wrong with that, in terms of looking for more and more extreme stuff and how becoming desensitized was actually worrying. He agreed with this and I've not found anymore 'tranny trap' porn, thus far. Last night he was trying to log into his emails regarding an ebay contact number he needed. He couldn't find it, so ive been looking for it, although he didn't ask me to. (I'd like to point out that i use his tablet and he allows me to do so). By accident i found an email from something called The Adult Hub; ive never heard of it, but it was a 'private message' from a male in his underwear - pic on the profile of the sender). Thinking the worst, i clicked the link and it took me to the account page. He has no 'friends' or private messages going on. The messages he's received in his inbox look like spam emails, inviting the account holder the upgrade their membership in order to read their messages. However, he joined the site a year before we started dating. His profile says 'he's bi curious, looking for bbws and couple with bi curious males for "outside fun". ' He puts his particular interest as 'dogging'. (Ewww hate that word). I'm not prudish. I don't mind him accessing porn which like red tube etc and anything mainstream I'm 'okay' with. Our sex life life is good and the sex, until recently, has been intimate and passionate. I don't know how to react? Part of me feels angry , part of me feels that my gut instinct has been right all along, as I've always wondered about his sexuality. Weirdly. He's not effeminate, doesn't work out in gums etc all the time. He has male mates, who are just mates - into blokey things like motocycles/cars/mechanics. He also gets on well with women and has a good mixture of people in his life. He's very sociable, outgoing and well liked. He doesn't seem to be 'struggling' with am issue is, i suppose, what I'm trying to say. I don't know how to approach this with him when he's back later? Do i confront? Do i leave it and wait for more evidence? I don't want to shout at him either, though. Could someone advise me? Really stuck.....?? Thanks in advance for any replies.