Am I over reacting?

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Ok few weeks ago (against my better judgement) I agreed to possibly give it one last ditch attempt to see if we could save our relationship for the sake of our small baby, this was despite the drinking, messaging ex, total nastiness about pregnancy and total lack of support for whole pregnancy and since baby has been born!

Anyways we agreed to try so we did, one if the biggest factors was trust, he totally lost my trust the day he asked a ex for sex just before I got pregnant and it was highlighted that this was a major issue and something that would have to be worked on at earning back!

So Sunday he goes AWOL, very unlike him, always available in phone etc so Monday morning he claims he didn't see missed calls etc and that he was just home, we again spoke about the trust and he agreed that it wouldn't happier again, was sorry etc so we moved on past it!

Yesterday we speak briefly at 9am and go about our days (again usual for him to kept in touch though the day regularly) so again he goes quite and I here nothing try him a few times and phone is turned off (he never turns his phone off as it's used for work) it stays off all night.

So this morning I decide enough is enough, the relationship can't continue as there are trust issues along with 100 other issues and he thinks it's ok to just go AWOL and disappear off

I have ended it with him this morning when he finally called claiming he was at a friends all day/night and signal bad as I just can't see a future for us, trust is one of the many problems we gave had and if he was serious about wanting a future together wouldn't he be making every effort to make sure he behaved in a way I could trust him!

He is now bombarding me with texts trying to make me out to be unreasonable and over reacting..... Am I?

No, he's a wanker and you are well rid of him.

Of course you're not being unreasonable. In cases where there is mistrust, the onus is on the person being given the second chance to prove they are trustworthy. Instead he seems to be going out of his way to behave even more suspiciously. He's a time waster.

Ignore all calls and texts and, if he persists, warn him off

I'm amazed you're still with him. Do you live together?

No you're not over reacting at all. He's very much in the wrong and it sounds like you're better off without him.

Thank you sometimes you do doubt yourself when they are telling you you are being unreasonable and overreacting!

Like I say it was a last ditch attempt after awful behavior involving drinking, his nastiness during the pregnancy and his behavior since baby has been born! I knew deep down it wasn't going to work but because off the baby and pressure from him I did agree to try again but it was made clear it was the last chance and we both had to give it our all.

You can do better for a serious committed partner than your baby's father. He might make a better dad than DP though it doesn't look promising.

I saw your post about how you were treated by the twat just after you gave birth recently.
No way are you being unreasonable.
This twat is completely untrustworthy and treats you like shit.
Don't let him come back. Take care.

Once a shit always a shit, you can't change him but you can change who you go out with.

You're not being unreasonable and the fact that he thinks he is teasonable tells you all you need to know.

Well done on respecting yourself more than he does. One day, when you're in a good relationship you'll look back and see with more clarity just how fucked up he is and wish you could hop in a time machine to tell you to have ended it sooner.

No, you are not reacting enough