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Feeling ugly

12 replies

singlemammy · 09/02/2015 22:49

Hi I used to be single but now in a relationship. I have children. My partner who is nearly forty and seems to think it's ok to play ps4 till 5 in the morning. He doesn't work but I do. Does nothing to help and seems to think it's acceptable to watch porn at every opportunity,I think this wrong. Am I being pathetic. This is not the 1st or 2nd time I have found it

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Greysanderson · 09/02/2015 23:12

Why are you with this guy?
Are the children his?

Original poster
singlemammy · 09/02/2015 23:16

Yes the children are his. He says I'm being pathetic over a little porn I am heartbroken he has done this many of time. I have told him he has disrespected me and I asked him to leave

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jasper · 09/02/2015 23:24

make sure he does leave.
what a deadbeat he sounds

Greysanderson · 09/02/2015 23:24

I don't see what value this man adds to your life. He doesn't contribute in either time, care or money and only makes you feel negative about yourself. Everyone deserves better than that.

I think you know what you need to do.

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singlemammy · 09/02/2015 23:26

Thank you

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YellowTulips · 09/02/2015 23:39

The only issue you have is that you have a lazy, selfish prick for a partner.

You'll feel a damn site better, prettier and self assured without such a financial and emotional vampire in your life.

Teanbiscuitsallround · 09/02/2015 23:40

Sounds a total waste of space. Get rid- you deserve better.

AnyFucker · 09/02/2015 23:41

You are not ugly. He is the ugly one, ugly inside.

albal14 · 10/02/2015 06:14

immature and very selfish. Kick him out. You will be far happier single.

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singlemammy · 10/02/2015 10:41

His left. Thank you all your kinds words x

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flatbellyfella · 10/02/2015 16:59

No one in a relationship should have to put up with their partner getting off on porn.

ineedabodytransplant · 10/02/2015 17:37

So sorry singlemammy, but that isn't/wasn't a relationship.

Well, certainly doesn't look like one to me.

I'm glad he's gone. Doesn't matter whether it's porn, alcohol or whatever. If he didn't see it stepped over your line then he didn't care anyway.

Sleep easy knowing the waster is gone and knowing you aren't the ugly one.

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