The long and short of it is, life is getting in the way of our relationship.
DH and I both work long hours, full time (I'm a teacher so evenings and a few hours at the weekend too). We have a 15 month old son. He goes to nursery, is generally happy and healthy (apart from the almost constant cough, cold, sickness, diarrhoea bugs from nursery). We share out all the jobs as best we can, both pulling our weight to keep a clean and tidy (enough) home, eat healthy (enough) foods, made slightly harder with DS's allergies. (I would say DH does the lions share of the housework and always puts DS first)
We had a difficult week- he said something hurtful, don't need to go into detail but the problem is, we are not making enough time for each other. I'm exhausted with very little Sex drive (and have been bleeding for 3 weeks now since starting back on the pill). I can be grumpy and moody. He craves affection (sex) and feels lonely.
I know I need to find time and energy for him (as I love him very much), I just don't know how!
I imagine that this is not an uncommon situation. Please share your ideas- little things we can do to make sure our relationship is that of a married couple, and not of merely housemates.