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Help! What is she thinking if anything?

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Generic123 · 07/02/2015 17:26

Ok so there's a girl in work, who treats me differently than the others. She giggles and laughs at a lot of the things I say, smiles a lot when she looks at me, talks and talks, to me, when I'm trying to leave the room she keeps the trying to reignite the conversation. She jokes with me, playfully teases me, and playfully is mean to me & makes fun. When were standing in a group (with other girls around) I notice she gradually gets closer and closer standing next to me. We even brush against eachither in the past. She tells me things about work I shouldn't know. When we talk about other girls, she shows me pics of women and asks if they are 'my type'. We are the same age and have a great connection.
All this made me think she may 'like' me...
However she has a bf and she does mention him to me but strangely only when others are around also. When we are alone she doesn't mention him.
Now I do not intend to do anything with this girl, after all she has a bf I just want to understand what's going on through her head, any idea maybe girls?
If she sees me as a friend that's fine, could it be more? I just want to understand where I stand.
Thanks!

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SelfLoathing · 07/02/2015 17:31

Ask her if she'd like to share a milkshake and a bag of Haribo.

cerealqueen · 07/02/2015 17:36

She likes you and enjoys flirting. Do you flirt back?

candyce83 · 07/02/2015 17:39

If she has a bf does it matter if she fancies you? I wouldn't bother, sounds like a sticky situation you might get yourself into.

NorwaySpruce · 07/02/2015 17:40

I think you'd benefit enormously from the experience of getting to know grown up people of both sexes. Then you will be able to leave all of your issues with 'girls' behind.

Just talk to her for God's sake, like a normal person. Stop obsessing over where she's standing/looking/brushing past, and just tell her you're busy and need to work.

Or ask her out. Maybe she and her partner see other people.

CogitoErgoSometimes · 07/02/2015 17:40

Obviously she's flirting and not being very subtle about it. If you're unhappy with the level of interest she's showing in you then be assertive and put things on a more professional footing.

Rugbycomet · 07/02/2015 17:43

?????? SelfLoathing

Rugbycomet · 07/02/2015 17:43

Oops Grin at SelfLoathing

SelfLoathing · 07/02/2015 17:46

LOL.
Wondered what that was Rugby!

Generic123 · 08/02/2015 16:00

Occasionally yes.

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