I'm just over 3 months pregnant and my bf has walked out on me. Things haven't been good recently - he's very much 'things will work out' whereas I need to plan things to know they are ok. He was a house dad to his first 2 kids so I always thought it would be great when we had our own baby. But now he won't give me any help or sympathy (been sick every day since middle of December). Until he left he was living half the week with me and half in another city where he works. He works as a delivery driver 3 nights a week here and every day he's here he goes to the gym for 2 hours and then goes to the pub for 1 or 2 hours so we ended up spending about 3 hours a week together. I've recently found out that I don't get anywhere near the amount of maternity pay that I thought I would and whilst he said he would help out financially he was keeping around £200 a week to himself where I would have absolutely no money for me. When I asked him to think about reducing his time/money spent in pub and on lottery tickets he told me I was taking away his civil rights of being a man and being far to demanding and that I couldn't expect him to give up anything else. He said he needed to go to the pub to unwind and when I asked when I would get time to unwind he said when the baby was sleeping. I stayed at my mum's that night and when I got home next day he had taken all his belongings and posted his key through the door. This was on Wednesday/Thursday. His jobs are casual so unless he chooses to give me money for the baby there is no way I'd be able to get him to pay maintenance as it looks like he doesn't work to the authorities. I haven't contacted him so far and don't really know if I should or not or what to say. Any advice would be very much appreciated.