how many women have cheated but have had partner forgive them

[nowomennocry15]

a few months ago i cheated on bf and he already knew about it when I told him a few days later, but he said it was ok and he still loved me, has anyone got a similar experience

Do you want to be with your bf? After all you have had an affair outside of the relationship. Do you respect him, as he seems to be intent in ignoring your infidelity?

First time, he took me back. Second time, my stuff was left in bin bags outside the flat.

I got away with it the first 7 times but then I got unlucky and he ditched me which was pretty unfair

7 times? wow was it with same person or different people

Loving your work Wondermuffin :)

i forgave my partner, due to it being my fault she did as i was invited out as well, but if shes does it again then i would have to take more deastic action

I'm not proud of it - but he was a snorer & we lived in a block of flats, I used to knock on neighbours doors (only the ones I knew) and ask if I could crash on their couches when the snoring was really bad. A few times I ended up in bed with the neighbours if I was drunk or couldn't sleep. There were rumours doing the rounds about me & he was suspicious but no proof so he couldn't do anything about it. Then one time I came back in the morning & he saw some evidence on my night-clothes. The problem was at that point I'd slept with 50% of the guys in the building. It was a long time ago now and we all have a past, it was nearly a year ago. But anyone that lives with a snorer would know where I'm coming from.

Sorry to drip feed but to clarify we got back together but he insisted we moved to a house

timelord how was it your fault your partner cheated on you??

OP you cheated... Do you actually want forgiving? If I cheated I imagine it would be because there was something drastically wrong with the relationship and therefore probably no future anyway.

wondermuffin my dp snores and it soothes me as i know i feel protected when im with him

I was thinking it's not half term yet, but maybe it is for independent schools...

Me, initially. But then a year later he had an affair and kicked me out, and he admitted then he'd never got over it.

We then got back together a year later (much to everyone's amazement) and sorted a lot out and are now disturbingly stable. But basically it took us about 3 years from initial affair until we really started sorting things out and had worked through the anger.

nowomennocry that's amazing! You're the only person I have come across able to do this I would give anything for that. What made it harder for me was that I was studying for my doctorate the time and was just getting no sleep at all.

it did bother me at first, but then i got used to it and then managed to fall asleep to it