Apologies in advance, this could get very long and drip feedy as there is just so much bollocks to wade through.
Right, a bit of background. SDD2 (19) stopped contact with me back in the summer, after I called her on some pretty atrocious behaviour. She has gone from being a fairly sweet (if slightly manipulative) girl, to an out and out nasty thing over the last two years.
Dh has always been a bit of a "disney dad" with her, does all the fun stuff, never says no, doesn't talk to her about poor performance and attendance at school/college, although shares his concerns with me in private. His ex made contact very difficult at first and DH learned not to rock the boat, we are all now paying for this!
SDD2 is very manipulative, tells so many lies and has really upped the attention seeking since the episode in the summer. Almost every week Dh gets a phone call claiming SDD1 (25 mother of 2 DD's) has said or done this, ex has done that, everyone is out to get her sort of thing, when in reality, it appears they all, including ex, have had enough of her lies and accusations and are no longer pandering to her.
So, this morning at 3.00am SDD2 phones DH, a real "yeah but, no but" disjointed rant claiming somebodys girlfriends, brothers, mates aunties, neighbour or some such waffle, told her that SDD1's partner is a "kiddy fiddler", apparently "everybody knows he was arrested for it before and is at it again with SGD1".
My immediate response is to call bullshit, this is just another of her attention seeking lies, but instead of being able to roll over and go back to sleep, I'm left thinking about what she has said.
Both of SDD1's girls have learning difficulties. Partner is the father of DD2. DD1 has severely delayed speech, poor concentration and understanding, she is statemented but I don't know the full diagnosis. DD2 has chronic health issues and in out of hospital, the only time that SDD1 is not with her DD1 is when she is in hospital with DD2.
SDD1 also has health issues and suffers with bouts of depression, she was totally devestated when her relationship with her DD1's dad finished. Unfortunately she doesn't feel complete unless in a relationship.
I'm left swaying between still calling bullshit on SDD2's claims, to thinking oh fuck, to be honest SDD1 is/was quite a vulnerable girl, as is her DD1. There are a lot of professionals involved in SDD1's life, social worker, health visitor, consultants etc, IF, big if, there were any truth to these claims, i.e previous arrest, would this not have been flagged up somewhere along the line?
I'm fucked off at being sucked back in to SDD2's drama's, back before the summer incident SDD2 had a "relationship" with a relative of SDD1's partner, by all acounts this lad was a "wrong 'un" and SDD1 tried to discourage the relationship. When it ended, SDD2 made allegations the SDD1's partner had threatened SDD2 and beat up his relative leaving him hospitalised, although there was no mention of this incident on her facebook page (she lives her entire life through facebook).
I'm sorry this is so long, if you were me, would you take any notice of these latest allegations, or just chalk it up to continued nasty drama created by SDD2?