Is it possible for a man who was mostly horrible to you throughout your relationship to meet someone else, fall madly in love, get engaged and married to them within a year and a half, and it be genuine and happy?
By horrible I mean emotionally, financially and sexually abusive and controlling. Looking back he was all these things and though I felt unhappy in between the highs when I was with him, I couldn't see the full picture of what he was. He also stole money from me and I believe he finally stole my wedding ring and engagement ring from my ex husband which I was going to give to my daughter. So all in all nasty and a user
He always rammed home the point that it was all me that caused the problems and so when I discover this latest bit of news I do have a momentary doubt that he was right. Ridiculous really as I am now in a very happy relationship with someone who values me. Do these people change or did I cause him to be the person he was when he was with me?