need help

[ashaaima]

after 2years together and plus have a 1year old daughter .never seen anything to worry about.i am getting worst in trying to find something fishy.

Did you also post yesterday ? Need more info on the problem for anyone to help

Are you saying that you are irrationally suspicious and looking for problems? You'd have to provide some context if you want help

You need to get your head around the fact that looking for trouble will not prevent it from happening.

If he is going to cheat, he will, regardless of your constant checking.

I suggest you need some counselling perhaps?

Don't make the mistake I have. Accusing him of flirting with others, pushing him away months of un needed arguments and trouble. When he hasn't done anything. It was out of my own insecurity.
Trusting is hard, but lack of trust will give them an open door.

what are you looking for? Your other posts all point towards him being selfish and unhelpful and you being ignored and unhappy.

Why do you stay with him? You can split up if you want to.

i have a daughter with him

after having a baby he has changed .he has an atitude with whatever i ask him to do.he says that i make him feel like a slave.ha?and then he has a problem with the way i talk to him.he doesnt like me anymore and i dont like him.we want to go seperate ways but our daughter needs both of us.

Your daughter may need you both but she doesn't need you both under the same roof hating each other's guts..... It's not divorce or separation that necessarily damages children, it's growing up in a hostile home.

your daughter will benefit more when you are on your own it is not good her being around arguments and fights. It will eventually give her the idea that's what a relationship is about.
I think you need to have a discussion possibly with a solicitor if you hate each other that much not to be able to talk things through.

i guess im just gonna have to live without talking back to him.you know,make him feel always the right one.and do everything myself whatever it is.i will never ask him for anything ever.that should work?

If things are that bad you have to seriously consider separating. What sort of example would being so subservient set your dd. Is he being abusive , financially or emotionally?

No that wont work at all. The only solution here is to leave.