with each other. I have known him a long time and her for a couple of years. They are both single both have children and he is almost twice her age. But thats not whats bugging me. She is VERY needy and tells me EVERYTHING (if you see what I mean) and he says nothing, he hasnt even mentioned the fact that they have begun seeing each other as they both agreed not to tell me yet but she just couldnt help herself, now her whole topic of conversation is him, him, him. I look after his child for him so he can go out every now and again and dont mind at all but last week he asked me to have him overnight, again not a problem, as I knew, from her, that they were seeing each other but he told me he was going out with the lads to the pub. I hate being lied too. I am seeing him tonight and am wondering whether he will actually tell me about seeing her or not. Do I mention it first? I dont really approve, but then thats not up to me to approve or not but I dont want to get caught in the middle if it all goes wrong. God, even Im confused now. All I know is that I am sick of hearing about it and just want them to keep their business to themselves and not to be lied too. Oh buugger.