knobber or crossed wires?

[vintagecrap]

take your votes people.

Second date was arranged for saturday, He cancelled friday due to work, and we re scheduled for today. I had said i was free from 830, he said that was a good plan as he would be up from about 3am, and he was going to let me know when he was on his way, trains come frequently, so, i was to pickhim up. I had a message from him at midnight ish, saying see you tomorrow.

i replied, and he hasnt even see the message yet. I can only assume he is alseep.
he is an hour away at the moment, so, even if he left now ( which he isnt doing) he wouldnt get here till 1045, which i dont think is early.

Is he just a knobber.

or, is there a possibility we have crossed wires somehow?

Why was he getting up at 3am?

he called back. he was alseep.
he said i should have just called him earlier.

he has weird sleep patterns due to this unconventional work.

Honestly, vintage, I wouldn't have the patience for all this, unless he was bloody lovely in every other way.

To be honest with you your lives sound completely incompatible for dating each other.

I also don't get the bit about dignity in not phoning. I think a phone call would have been the normal thing to do there is nothing undignified about ringing and basically saying "hey what's happening today?"

I'm confused about that.