My DH and I have been together for 13 years but we separated last year. It hasn't been an easy year for many reasons but we seem to have turned a corner and we would like to try and see if we can rekindle our marriage. There was no infidelity, just a lot of pressure due to health issues, however there had been some unhappiness on both sides that had been building for a few years.
We get along well for the most part, but there are still lingering issues that we would both like to try and resolve. We would like to find a book or workbook to go through to try and help us vocalise the issues we have and help us work through them. We know it won't be easy but we both want to try. We tried a therapist and we both ended up united in disliking him. He has tried about 6 or 7 other therapists not found one he likes, so we thought a book/workbook might help us out.
Any suggestions?