XP ended our relationship 2 years ago. He just disappeared for 3 months and then rang to say it was over. I've not seen him for 2 years but hear he has a new partner and life is rosey for him.
I don't blame him for ending the relationhip of 6 years which hadn't been great for a long time, but wish he hadn't been so cowardly about it, leaving me phoning round to check he wasn't dead. Although I felt the way he ended things was unkind I wasn't distraught - no tears were shed. I didn't long for him to come back or anything like that ; was just hurt at the way he ended it.
Anyway, my life has moved on. I work, I'm busy and now have a good social life and life is generally good. I haven't had a relationship since - tried OD for quite a while, had lots of dates but didn't find anyone who appealed.
Why do I keep thinking about him? I don't think about the good times together or how I want him back (I absolutely don't) - more I think about him in his new life with his new partner.
I just want to get him out of my head. But how?