I know there have been a lot of threads about "is his cheating" but I'd really like some help. And sorry for the namechange.
Last week I logged onto the computer and my DH had left his emails on the screen. Sue me, I checked them. I found a few mails from the same girl. They seemed innocent enough, she had contacted him, she'd asked him for some help (knowing his profession) and everything seemed above board. But, looking at the last email, they didn't go to school together - they used to "Chat" with each other (before I met him) and met up. There's one email which he wrote that he was sorry he never kissed her when they'd met as he'd regretted it afterwards.
I confronted my DH who said that it was all above board, that she'd contacted him and they just email a couple of times a week. He pointed out that she's happily married with a baby (she does mention both her husband and child in the mails) and that he loves me. He says they've never met up, nor have plans to.
I'm a naturally jealous person, he knows this! We've often had big rows as I feel he's far too flirty with other women. We've been married for a year, and had been planning to start a family, but now I'm feeling really upset.
Do you think I'm right to be upset?