Hello all, I will try and keep this brief, but last weekend, DH went out very drunk with the lads back in at 3am. Sun morning txt on his phone from "Daz" saying I want your C**K sooo bad. Bizarre don't think much of it just one the lads messing around.
Monday morning there is another msg from Daz saying have a nice holiday (we were going away for a few days). This msg was def not from one of his mates so I get suspicious. For the next two days he hides he phone has it on silent etc so am vet suspicious. Finally get hold od it and get the number for Daz. Ring it on Tues a woman answers - aha! penny drops. Dont confront him but change the settings to save all of the sent msgs (he doesn't know I have done this and is unlikely to find out). Check the phone on Thurs and there is one to Daz saying I'll let you know. On Fri morning (after I have been out with the children) there are two msg one saying Can you speak, another saying, yeah, that's her number (mine) she is out with her mate tonight and this is her number just in case. I confront him and he denies everything at first. His Mums comes around and he confesses to her.
He went out Sat night, met a girl he used to know a lon time ago (doesn't know her name), they have a drink and a dance and get chatting and exchange numbers. She texts him a couple of msgs he wants nothing more to do with her so thinks thats that, until I ring her he gets suspicious and rings him and they are trying to work out together what I know / am going to do - ask me you fuffin idiot!
Don't know what to believe so ring her, she says she is sorry they were drunk, stupid blah blah blah. Tells me my DH told her we were having marriage problems the same as her (didn't know this myself but we do have a problem now)! And we weren't sleeping together ?? WTF! They chatted and at the end of the night they snogged (says she). Speak again to DH and ask him for the truth, he denies the kissing bit, but says I was too drunk to remember. I am in such an awful place thinking all different things, if he has kissed her then this is betrayl to me and I don't know how to move forward. Please tell me what you think or what you would do....Thanks xx