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Weird Fantasy?

30 replies

wonderingwhattodo1 · 05/01/2015 22:10

I have NC for this as I think this is a bit weird.

Basically I fantasise a lot about my DP having sex with another woman. I've not told him about this as I really don't know how he would react, but I have been considering telling him in the hope of him being up for the idea.

We haven't had sex for months now. I'm pregnant and it is uncomfortable when I have sex. But he is going mad with sexual frustration that I almost feel sorry for him. The thing is my sex drive is through the roof but I have been pleasuring myself instead of having sex as it feels better doing that at the moment.

This may all be a silly fantasy, and something that I might regret if it came true. But I'll never know until I say something will I? Just to make this even more weird, my DP thinks one of my friends is "absolutely stunning" (she is very good looking), and all I can think about when I get these fantasies is them both having sex. Tbh i dont think he would need much persuading!

What shall I do? I think the pregnancy hormones have sent me loopy.

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Gawjushun · 05/01/2015 22:56

Most cuckold fantasies have an element of humiliation about them. Are you maybe a secret submissive? Do you want to see your man as some powerful figure who can have all the beautiful women he wants?

It's probably not the best fantasy to act out. You could talk about it during dirty chat. Enjoy the horny phase together, just don't take it to real life until you're in a non hormonal position.

dirtybadger · 05/01/2015 23:03

You know what you do yourself?...just let him do it. Pow. Sorted. He might request you find something for him that you're comfortable with too, but you'll work it out.

Awful fantasy to act out, as they go.

AnyFucker · 05/01/2015 23:11

Are you sure these are not lesbian tendencies of your own ?

DisgraceToTheYChromosome · 05/01/2015 23:43

St. Teresa of Avila once said that more tears are shed over answered prayers than unanswered ones.

F'rinstance, I wanted my finances sorting out and some time off work. So God got a taxi to break my leg in 3 places. I know it was Him because it was outside Westminster Abbey. Bastard.

AnyFucker · 05/01/2015 23:52
Grin
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